Saturday, 9 July 2016

Rules of attraction ...

I took a bus to the airport to pick up my mum, I sat there at the bus stop watching each individual, the car that passes by and the people sitting in the bus. I wonder if all of us dress up the same who would stand out? How did one person choose to notice another person in a group? Did they choose who they want to interact based on their smile, outlook, voice,  if everyone dresses the same. 

Why did I choose to interact with F after the wedding ? What makes me want to go out with him on the 11th of May ? Did I choose him because he was better looking ? Charming? Drives a nice car? His eyes? Could it be the whole package of him being such a charming and gentleman person?  

Why did he choose me? Do I look like an easy target to charm ? What attracts him bout me? My super crazy bubbly laugh or my honesty. 

I wonder how does 2 stranger gets connected with just a touch of hands. Was there any research done that proves the attractions  level of 2 individuals only lasted certain time frame before one of them suddenly felt it's wrong. I really would like someone to tell me about it. 

I guess first stage of attractions is always the looks, that includes how one dress up and carry oneself.  There is a saying there is no ugly people in this works just lazy people. I believe it's really true.

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